i know what u mean Mary and i think maybe they are telling us no dating period becuase they went through that exprience before and got more hurt than helped. But the thing is that teenagers including me are very stubborn and we usualy don't listen …
No it wasn't, i was in the Altar deacon for that Sunday and during the readings, i just stepped to him and sat next to him and talked. (i guess u can call that confession) but we asked him the same question during a church retreat and he gave the sa…
Well Youst718 i am 19 yrs old. I went through what you mean several times but they had several different outcomes. Here is what i mean
My first year of high school here in the states (jr yr of high school) i liked a girl and i thought i liked her t…
OOOOOOOH YA WE DID if you go to the main general discussion area there are like 15 pages on it, but i will be happy to start this again if you guys want to.
well the only thing you can do is go full blast with the priest and tell him everything and if he thinks of you as a bad person than that is his judgment yes it might hurt you but he committed a sin of judging others and hey every person have his si…
well sms the worse issue is that church is not the dating place, those people are dating americans and others not from my church. Also the chair of sunday school are 60 and 70 i am not saying the they are not doing their jobs they are, and they he…
ok let me try to go through those questions one at a time
first for SMS's post: i would think if you have a crush on a person and you think that that person could be a possible partner for you in the future and both of you share the same feelings, i…
See the issue with trying to hold a youth meeting is that i am a servant in the church but not in sunday school. So i am caring about my friends who are my age and younger. I do hold a meeting on the university campus which i attend and we already…
well a better question you should ask yourself first why is that guy filling your mind? Is he filling your mind because of lust thoughts or is he filling your mind because you like him and you think he might be a future husband of yours? Than depend…
ya but if i loose the trust than i lost all that i was building and how i was trying to help them. Because i would say no and their parents would say no but u can't control their each move and then they will end up in a deep hole while on the other…
ok i would like to raise a question here that you guys might kill me for. But if one of those youth who are my friend come and ask me about dating what should i tell him/her? because if i tell that person dating is wrong and you are not ready for i…
i see what you mean Paul, but "dating" somebody to know if that is the right person for you to marry or not takes a LONG time maybe a year or two or even more and if you start when you are financialy stable you might be a bit too late. I think you…
see you posting is good but that comes again to the question what is that age? some think you can get married when you are 19 and some 19 yrs old get married while others think when you are 30 is when to start dating so we are still in no land yet
ok guys you might find this either helpful or not
From my opinion a border has to be decided on, till now I heard a hundred diffrent opinion and it still doesn't show me where the border is!!
Please consider that we haven't covered everything las…
well i been going through this issue for a while and i had feelings for a friend from church so i went and asked my priest about dating in general and he said this as long as you are talking to that person for a specific reason which is marriage or …
what defender was getting is that in the posting church youth going down a hill we started talking about dating in the middle and we had this converstation going on
if still more people are inquiring about dating that means we haven't covered ever…
what defender was getting is that in the posting church youth going down a hill we started talking about dating in the middle and we had this converstation going on
if still more people are inquiring about dating that means we haven't covered eve…
i know what you mean defender. And i think there is a border to dating. i know Mark and egyprincess are going to kill me and get mad at me for saying this but as long as our church doesn't put out an offical statement about dating so many differen…
well dating is acutally kinda of important too because part of the problem those youth going through is the problem of dating with their parents.
so this is really important at least from my point of view.
Again as i said i don't want to start a 11 …
i am not trying to start a whole disucssion about dating again in here but from what you saying mark. DATING: as talking to a person to know if that person is the one or not is wrong. I am not saying every couple of weeks you say i am gonna go tal…